Monday, March 5, 2012

Humidifiers, Can some of them do more harm than good?

I live in Minnesota and if one thing’s true about Minnesota other than our cold winters it’s that the air in my home will be dry. To combat this we use a humidifier at night in our kids’ rooms as a way of getting some moisture in their air. We had an older humidifier model that required the use of a filter which was a major pain b/c we rarely changed the filter. Within the past year we made the switch to a newer model that was filter-less and cool. Both my husband and I were pleased with the results and we liked that we didn’t have to use a filter. There was something thought that we didn’t like about the humidifier – this white, chalky dust began appearing everywhere in the room that the humidifier was in.

We didn’t think anything of this dust. It was just an annoyance b/c it would cause the CD player in my son’s room to skip which meant we were constantly cleaning both the player and the CD. It wasn’t until my mom started experiencing breathing problems and sought help from her allergist that she and I started to put two and two together. We realized that we both had this white dust in our homes wherever the humidifier was placed. We decided to stop using the humidifiers. Overnight, my mom felt better and I decided that I couldn’t let whatever this junk was near my kids’ lungs. The other scary thing that she noticed was that since November the flame on her gas burning stove was yellow – not blue. The gas company came out as well as the appliance company came out. There was nothing wrong with the stove or the gas line so it was determined that the yellow flame was because of the air quality in my parents’ home. Well, after ridding the house of the white dust and the humidifiers the flame on the stove is blue again. The air is clean.

So what is it? The white dust contains minerals and microorganisms from the unfiltered water in your home. The particles are so small that they do enter your airways and then get into your lungs. The data is limited as these kinds of humidifiers are new to the market; however, as you can see from the way my mom responded, a build up of this dust can be detrimental to your breathing and the air quality in your home.

The US Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) says that the best way to use these humidifiers is by putting distilled or de-mineralized water into the machine. You should not use plain tap water as the mineral content is higher. Also purified water does not rid the water of minerals as well as the de-mineralizing process. Bottled water that’s called spring, artesian, or mineral still contain minerals in them. The EPA also suggests cleaning your humidifier every three days to make certain that scale, a build up in the humidifier, stays at bay. Scale can produce fungi and/or bacteria.

The other thing you can do is purchase a humidifier that has a filter in it or look into your humidifier’s filtering options. You never know, there might be a filter out there for your product that’ll help keep the yuckies away!

Elizabeth (aka Bert) Anderson married her college sweetheart in 2005, and started her journey into motherhood in 2008 with the birth of her son.  She started blogging in 2009 as a way to keep track of her thoughts on being a first time mom, especially her struggle with postpartum depression, and as a way of reaching out to other moms who are struggling with the same things.  This June, Bert had another first in her motherhood travels - a little girl!  Even though she's newly a mother of two, Bert maintains that no matter how many children you have you will always be a "first time mom" because there's a first time for everything!  Visit her blog, at FTM. Bert is a contributor for She Thinks Media.

Monday, February 6, 2012

One mother's journey, Exclusively pumping breastmilk for her three children.

Kelly H. from the Twin Cities made the decision to exclusively pump her breast milk for all three of her children, Jonathon (9 yrs), Jeremiah (7 yrs), and her daughter, Joelle (4 yrs). Kelly is married to Erin who is an electrical engineer. Kelly is a stay at home mom.

Kelly had made the decision to nurse her babies for two reasons – her husband’s asthma and her childhood food allergies would be less likely to be a problem for her children and she didn’t think that her family would be able to afford formula.

Breastfeeding her firstborn son, Jonathon, did not go as she had expected. While Kelly was in the hospital after Jonathon’s birth, the nurse had given her a pump and a cup so that Kelly could feed him. Jonathon was not latching on and the hospital staff had no idea why. After visiting a lactation consultant multiple times, Kelly learned that she was very efficient at producing milk, so her supply was not the problem. Jonathon also had jaundice so to help him gain weight Kelly pumped and Jonathon was bottle-fed.

Even though Jonathon was bottle-fed the feedings could take what felt like forever. After a long week of little to no success, Kelly’s mother discovered the reason why Jonathon was having a difficult time feeding (it could sometimes take up to an hour for Jonathon to drink one ounce). Kelly’s mother noticed that Jonathon was sucking on his tongue which was inhibiting the amount of milk he took in and the length of time it took to do that. After holding his tongue down while he drank he was able to finish the bottle in no time at all. Kelly’s mom told her about this discovery the next morning and Kelly felt like a failure. She was a new mom and had no experience breastfeeding. She didn’t want to give up but she had no idea how she would force Jonathon to be able to suck on her soft nipple when he needed some harder. Her nipple shield was not working either.

After feeling exhausted and like a failure, Kelly decided she had to come up with a new plan. Kelly said her new plan was, “…even if I couldn't nurse like normal I would give my son as much of my own milk as I could.” After making this decision, Kelly discussed it with Jonathon’s pediatrician and he agreed that pumping breastmilk and bottle-feeding was probably the only way Jonathon would be able to eat.

After the birth of her second child, Jeremiah, Kelly again experienced difficulties breastfeeding. This time Kelly’s problem was that one side was not producing as much milk and it was also very painful to feed Jeremiah. She tried for two weeks with no success and returned to what she knew best, exclusively pumping.

With her third and last child, Joelle, Kelly experienced something she hadn’t anticipated. A lactation consultant visited her hospital room and explained to her that she had already had damage to her breasts. If she were to breastfeed successfully with Joelle, Kelly would need to surround herself with several pillows propping her up. That conversation left Kelly feeling like pumping and bottle feeding would be less inconvenient than surrounding her with a wall of pillows.

The only research Kelly did to help her exclusively pump was information on how long the milk could be left out, how to store it and tips on how she should warm up the milk.

While both of Kelly’s sons, Jonathon and Jeremiah, did receive some formula, Joelle, got the most breast milk. Kelly pumped until Joelle was five months old and then she weaned off of pumping. She had month’s worth of milk in her freezer so Joelle still benefitted from her hard work. Kelly’s favorite accessories that helped her successfully pump was an electric pump (Kelly used a Medela Pump in Style), freezer breast milk bags and plenty of bottles. Kelly first started out with a manual pump but after using that for two months she sprung for an electric pump and was very happy with her decision. Kelly also really liked thick flannel burp cloths to have close to her while she was pumping.

Here’s what Kelly said were the pros and cons of exclusively pumping:

Pros
1. It made me feel good to see how much milk I could produce.  Especially at the first few weeks of my babies’ lives, when they weren't eating as much, I could pump almost the whole days worth of milk first thing in the morning and store what I pumped the rest of the day.

2. I would pump for 30 min. first thing in the morning and 20 min. 4-5 other times during the day.  Then pour what I needed in a bottle and either spend a few minutes feeding the baby or hand them to someone else.  A lot of times I would feed them and then just sit and rest with them. I'm pretty sure that the pumping and feeding time was less time than 20 min. per breast each feeding.

3.  I liked that Erin, my husband, got bonding time during the before bed feeding.  We also tag teamed in the middle of the night.

4. My kids were getting the benefits of my milk; I got the convenience of the bottle.  I could go away even over night and it was okay.  I didn't have to worry about the feeding in public thing. Being a bigger chested girl and feeling uncoordinated, that was a big concern for me.

5. I heard that one of the benefits of breastfeeding is that it makes you sit and rest, yet I hear of people who can walk around and do it.  Pumping really does make you sit and rest, several times a day.

Cons
1. You feel like you have to defend yourself every time you pull out a bottle in public.  Breast milk advocates can really make you feel like less of a mom for using a bottle.

2.  Continually having to clean the equipment.  I got so that I would put the pumps in a baggie in the refrigerator between pump times so I didn't have to clean them 6 times a day.

3. You can be somewhat flexible with when you pump but when visiting out of town family it is inconvenient to have to go to a back room to pump instead of enjoying the company.  It is also inconvenient to have to take the extra equipment and make room for it at their house...but I managed.

For more information on exclusively pumping check out kellymom.com (no relation to the Kelly in our story). There is a wealth of information on that site that is helpful and encouraging if you have to make the same decision Kelly did.

Elizabeth (aka Bert) Anderson married her college sweetheart in 2005, and started her journey into motherhood in 2008 with the birth of her son.  She started blogging in 2009 as a way to keep track of her thoughts on being a first time mom, especially her struggle with postpartum depression, and as a way of reaching out to other moms who are struggling with the same things.  This June, Bert had another first in her motherhood travels - a little girl!  Even though she's newly a mother of two, Bert maintains that no matter how many children you have you will always be a "first time mom" because there's a first time for everything!  Visit her blog, at FTM. Bert is a contributor for She Thinks Media.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Signs of a teething baby?

Seven days. No naps or barely there naps. Then on the eighth day, she finally took her morning nap! It was two and a half hours of pure relaxation. I felt such a sense of relief. I was so happy thinking that finally my daughter, Lady Bug, had gotten over the nap strike that had captured my sanity that week. I thought that surely she would turn a corner; then Monday came. It seemed like an ordinary day until the afternoon came and Lady Bug spiked a fever. My poor girl; she was so sweet and cuddly though.

The night was long; both my hubby and I felt like we were reliving a similar night we had with our son two and a half years ago. The rest of the next day was predictable. Lady Bug was fussy and very clingy to me. I swore up and down all day that she was teething.  This had to be teeth! Certainly, my son, Buggie, had done the same thing and I know that he spiked a fever a few days before he cut his first tooth.

I did a Google search (naturally when in doubt Google it!) on teething and fevers. I know, I know. Doctors and researchers have done studies that have concluded that fever and teething cannot be neither confirmed nor denied. What they can confirm is that perhaps a low grade fever can accompany the first set of teeth and the molars. I wasn’t happy with that response so I decided to look at my son’s baby book.

I was meticulous about writing every first down with my son. I flipped through the book and found something very interesting…My memory wasn’t as sharp as I had thought. Buggie’s first fever happened after he cut his first set of teeth. The fever wasn’t before like I though I had remembered so vividly. Rats. I hate when my kids get sick and I was really hoping that what Lady Bug was going through was teething. I mean all of the
signs are there: Fever, fussiness, gnawing on everything, sleeping problems (when she’s normally a great sleeper), and popping on and off my breast when I fed her. I can’t lie that the evidence is contrary to what my hypothesis is. I don’t think its teething.

What do YOU think?  Were there telltale signs that teething was beginning in your little one?
 
Elizabeth (aka Bert) Anderson married her college sweetheart in 2005, and started her journey into motherhood in 2008 with the birth of her son.  She started blogging in 2009 as a way to keep track of her thoughts on being a first time mom, especially her struggle with postpartum depression, and as a way of reaching out to other moms who are struggling with the same things.  This June, Bert had another first in her motherhood travels - a little girl!  Even though she's newly a mother of two, Bert maintains that no matter how many children you have you will always be a "first time mom" because there's a first time for everything!  Visit her blog, at FTM. Bert is a contributor for She Thinks Media.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Luvaboos of Rochester, NY Winter Consignment Sale Details!

Luvaboos 2012 Winter Consignment Sale

Saturday February 4th, 11-5pm and Sunday February 5th 12-4pm 
(Sunday = 50% off all items marked to REDUCE!) 



How do you sell your gear?
  
1.  email us right away!  We will send you a form to fill out with your diapers, name, price and REDUCE to include in the 50% off sale if they do not sell on Sunday. 
  
2. Send your list back to us with ALL your contact info and your option of 60% cash back or 80% store credit and we will send you a PDF of Barcoded tags (if all goes smoothly :) for each of your items.
  
3.  Print your tags on card stock, tag your items.  Small gold safety pins work great or you may use our Tag Gun for $1.00 (You must arrive at least 1 1/2 hours before close to use our Tag Gun).
  
4.  Drop off your items Jan-28th -Feb 2nd during store hours OR ship them and we'll take care of the rest!  We'll organize them, answer questions and hopefully sell them all for you :)
  
5.  Any remaining items and your 60% cash back or 80% store credit will be available for your pick up.  You MUST pick up your items and payment by Feb 10th or we will assume you don't want the remaining items and we will donate them.

*This Sale there will be a $6 consigner registration fee deducted from items sold and a $1 purchaser fee for each customer at the sale (you are only charged if any of your items sell OR if you are purchasing, no entrance fee.  This is to help us cover the costs of staff to keep the sale up and running!).

*Like to earn more commission?  You can do so by volunteering before, during OR after the sale.  Volunteer shifts are 4 hours and you will receive an additional 10% back in either Cash or Store Credit.
  
Last sale we went through the majority of the items in the first few hours so it is a great way to unload your stash.  We also went through other baby items such as carriers, wipes warmers, gear and more.  We are NOT accepting clothes, feminine products or home made carriers at this sale but have some great consignment stores to recommend if you are interested.
  
Any questions feel free to shoot us an email.  And remember, you MUST follow these steps or we will have to turn you away.  It is not that we wouldn't love to help you tag your items but there simply isn't enough time with everything else there is to accomplish around here and still see our little ones before they go to bed :)
  
NOW, go get your stuff out and get ready to free up some cash, tell all your friends, post on your mommy/daddy groups, craigslist, blogs, facebook, twitter, wherever!  We want to see you destash and know there are lots of parents already looking forward to snagging some good deals for little ones to come.  Let's save everyone some time and money, shop local and have a fun day :)
  

Here is the email again to contact us!  Rita is heading up getting your labels to you so all emails will be directed toward her! (thanks Rita :)

Friday, January 13, 2012

Ever had to use your SuperMom super powers?

SuperMom to the rescue!!!! Have you ever thought that since you became a mom you’ve acquired super powers? I do and I have a story to tell you to prove it.

It was a nice quiet afternoon. My son, Buggie, was doing his daily quiet time in his room and I was playing with my 6 month old daughter, Lady Bug on our couch. She was giggling at me as I played peek-a-boo. I thought this would be a perfect time to grab my video camera since I so rarely have a quiet moment with just her. She was propped up in the corner of our couch, resting between the back of the couch and the arm rest. I should have known better but I quickly turned around and out of the corner of my eye I saw her tipping forward. It all seemed to happen in slow motion and if this has ever happened to you, you know what I’m describing.

Without hesitation I leaped towards her, desperately trying to catch her. Using the couch as a buffer I gently scooped her up into my arms. She was obviously startled but I knew her cry and it wasn’t from pain. I nailed my side on the corner of our coffee table but it’s almost like I didn’t feel that initial twinge of pain.

My hubby will be the first person to tell you that I’m incredibly uncoordinated and clumsy. I was a swimmer growing up and I’ve always said that I’m better in water not on land. When it comes to my kids’ safety that clumsiness disappears and I have reflexes as fast as a cat. I think I shall call myself MamaCat during these moments.

What about you? What’s your mama super power?

Elizabeth (aka Bert) Anderson married her college sweetheart in 2005, and started her journey into motherhood in 2008 with the birth of her son. She started blogging in 2009 as a way to keep track of her thoughts on being a first time mom, especially her struggle with postpartum depression, and as a way of reaching out to other moms who are struggling with the same things. This June, Bert had another first in her motherhood travels - a little girl! Even though she's newly a mother of two, Bert maintains that no matter how many children you have you will always be a "first time mom" because there's a first time for everything! Visit her blog, at FTM. Bert is a contributor for She Thinks Media.

Monday, January 9, 2012

Conrgats to Audra Barrick, Winner of our Knickernappies Diaper Hunt!

Thank you all for participating in the Knickernappies Diaper Hunt!  We hope you all had fun and enjoyed browsing our site. 

Knickernappies has chosen all the official winners and the lucky winner of our leg of the Diaper Hunt is Audra Barrick!  Audra, please check your email for a notification from us and to claim your prize, (3) Just Hemp Knickernappies Inserts!

For a complete list of winners and to see who won the Knickernappies Grand Prize please visit the Knickernappies Blog.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Winner of the Boba THANK YOU giveaway is...Meg P!

Thank you all for entering our giveaway!  We enjoyed giving you all a chance to win an awesome Boba Carrier, and we also are so flattered by having gotten to read all your reviews and recommendations!

Rafflecopter has chosen a winner and the lucky winner is Meg P! 

What did Meg P have to say about Luvaboos?
"I have had so many great experiences visiting Luvaboos. Heather and her staff are very knowledgeable and always willing to help educate and provide assistance! The shop has so many great items in stock, and they are also willing to special order items that aren't in stock. I definitely recommend stopping in to the store for all my local friends, and the website for friends who are not local!"
 Meg, thank you and everyone else who entered, we appreciate it from the bottom of our hearts!  Meg, please check your email for a notification from us.